Friday, June 3, 2011

Let's talk about sex baby

I am SO FUCKING PISSED at everyone waving their sexuality around like it was some kind of god damn golden ticket.
What I mean is people seem to think being a virgin is something to be proud of or being a non-virgin is something to be proud of or being gay or being straight, bi, transgendered, whateverthefuckoxesual... I'm really getting sick of this shit.

You are what you are and you can be proud of yourself without using what you are as a means of making others feel bad.

I'm not a virgin but I certainly don't go around saying "Oh MY GOD all you non-virgins are such losers!! GO GET LAID YOU FUCKIN PRUDES" but even if I WAS a virgin I also wouldn't be marching about with a holier-than-thou attitude, parading in my finest white garments saying "this is my choice and I'm damn proud to be a virgin!"

I mean really, why are you so proud of being a virgin?  Why are you so proud of not being a virgin??  If you're gay then that's just a state of self... just... it's really no big deal.
Just about nothing involving your sexuality is a big deal in fact.

I like fat people... whats the big deal? NOTHING.  I'm bisexual... what's the big deal? NOTHING. I haven't been a virgin since I was 17... whats the big deal? NO-FUCKING-THING.  I'm just going to do what I do and not down others for what they do enjoy unless it's something legitimately harmful.

The only reason why anyone would want to reblog one of those stupid "I'm proud to be a virgin/gay/straight/non-virgin/bisexual..." posts is to feel like they aren't alone; that they belong to some larger group who understands their feelings.

I think this is a great thing to feel connected to other people and it SHOULD be sought out but when you start connecting to these kindred-hearts by riddiculing others who are just trying to do the same thing then you have crossed a fucking line.

Hey virgins don't feel bad, EVER, for being a virgin... but please don't look down on others who've had sex just to feel better about yourselves.

Be proud of things you've done and be proud of being the best person you can be, not because of your sexuality.

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